When Our Guard Is Down

when people are facing obstacles in your life
we do feel upset, anxious and afraid to take actions to against it
we are stuck in that worst situation and hard to get out from it
we ask ourselves repeatly
"why these things happen to us?"
and we often regret and blame ourselves which we lead the situation to that moment
I am not a psychologist consultant to this kind of matter
but I am just wish to give my pure advice
perhaps it is the time for us to step back, take a break and things gonna be easy
perhaps it slow us down to review on ourselves and to figure out what does it cause this happen and what else we can do to solve thisproblem
it is ok to let your guard down once a long time
it is ok to express your deep emotions and thoughts in front of people you trusted and who care about you
but after you came through the heart broken time
I wish we could stand up and pick up your sword and shield to fight back
don't ever disappointed the people who care about you
they sure would be proud with you when you able to find a way out from this tough moment
I do think so


P/s:
the image was taken from Google Search
and this is only my point of view and no offense
thanks